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Pat Neshek’s soaring triumph tinged with sorrow

Jul 15, 2014, 2:15 PM EDT

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MINNEAPOLIS — The most remarkable and wonderful part about the Pat Neshek story is that it isn’t one story. It is 10 different stories going over top of each other like different children’s hands working their way up the handle of a baseball bat in that game to decide who hits first. When Neshek starts crying for happiness as he talks about how unlikely and absurd it is, all of it, you are not quite sure which specific unlikely and absurd part he is thinking about.

For instance, he could be talking just about the thrill of being here, back in his hometown, at the unlikely age of 33 (almost 34) age in his first All-Star Game just a few miles away from where he grew up. That is story enough right there.

Then, he could just be talking about baseball. Pat Neshek loves baseball. No, really, he LOVES baseball. He reached into his pocket and pulls out … old baseball cards. There’s a Tony Oliva card. There’s a Juan Marichal card. There’s also a Sam McDowell card. Neshek heard McDowell might be here. He hopes to get the cards autographed for his collection.

See, Neshek is a huge baseball card collector. He’s trying to get the entire 1970 set autographed. You would think this is common among baseball players, but it really is not. It used to surprise me how few really big baseball fans are playing the game. For years, I would ask players to tell some story about their baseball fanhood. Finally, though, so many would shrug their shoulders whenever something about baseball history came up, or say something like, “I wasn’t that big a fan of any one team or player, I was too busy playing baseball,” that I finally stopped asking.

That’s not to say you have to be a big baseball fan to appreciate being in the All-Star Game … it’s a great professional moment. But I would guess being a fan, dreaming about this game, adds something. Neshek talks about wispy memories of the 1985 All-Star Game in Minneapolis, when he was just 5. He talks about vivid memories of a World Series parade when he saw Kirby Puckett and first dreamed of being a baseball player. So when he thinks about being in an All-Star Game parade this week and some kid maybe seeing him and dreaming … sure, the eyes get a little watery.

Then, the eyes also get a little watery when he thinks about where his career has been. He could have made the All-Star Game back in 2007. He was 26 years old then, and he was playing for his hometown Minnesota Twins, and at the All-Star break, he had a 1.70 ERA and the league was hitting .129 against him. He didn’t make the team; middle relievers rarely do. But he had a good career going. Neshek threw with a crazy sidearm angle that started low and ended high, but unlike most sidewinders, he could throw hard, and he dominated hitters.

Then, it all went bad. In 2008, after just 13 1/3 innings, he was shut down for the season because of a ligament tear in his elbow. He did not want to undergo Tommy John surgery and held off as long as he could. After the season ended, he finally relented and had the surgery and missed all of the 2009 season as well. Shortly into the 2010 season, he injured his middle finger and then got into a bit of a public spat with the Twins because he did not believe it was handled properly. He only pitched nine innings that year — that meant he had pitched just 22 innings in three years. After the season, the team he grew up loving put him on waivers, and he went to pitch in San Diego.

This was baseball as business, not as the game he grew up loving. That can be a shock, but you adjust or you drop out. Someone asked another Minnesota native — All-Star reliever Glen Perkins — if he wanted to be a starter when he first started in baseball. “Yeah, but I stunk at it,” he said. “And then I wanted to be a reliever.”

It didn’t work out for Neshek with the Padres, so he signed on with Baltimore. That didn’t work out either, he didn’t make the team, so he pitched for their Class AAA team for a while until Oakland traded for him. That was great. He liked Oakland a lot. He grew a beard because A’s GM Billy Beane told the team to do something fun. His fastball was more or less gone, but his slider had become a nice pitch. In his first full inning with the A’s, he struck out the side throwing sliders.

“Yeah,” his catcher Derek Norris said. “Let’s keep doing that.”

So Neshek pitched from the stretch, and he threw slider after slider for a year and a half in Oakland, and he pitched pretty well in limited time, but the truth is that people around baseball don’t have much faith in 30-something relievers who live and die with their sliders. When last season ended, he waited for teams to call. Well, he didn’t just wait — he called teams himself. Detroit? Not interested. Milwaukee? Barely interested. That was hard. “It would have been easy for me to quit,” he says.

Then, his father, Gene, offered a suggestion: Maybe he should go back to his full wind-up and try to find his fastball again. Hey, why not? Neshek tried it. He felt like the ball was popping pretty well. The Cardinals called and offered a chance … he told his agent that St. Louis was a waste of time, that the Cardinals bullpen was already overloaded. But St. Louis was the only one that offered a real opportunity so he went to camp and threw as hard as he could.

And … something crazy happened. That fastball — which had been stuck at 85 or 86 for years — now rushed in at 92 or 93 mph at times. That was interesting. His slider still fooled hitters. He somehow made the team. On April 11 against the Cubs, he came into a close game in the ninth and pitched a scoreless inning, striking out two. It was the first of what would be 22 consecutive appearances without allowing a run. On May 21st, his ERA dropped below 1.00. It has been there ever since.

“Our third All-Star,” Cardinals manager Mike Matheny said to the team after announcing that perennial stars Yadier Molina and Adam Wainwright had made the team, “Is a first-time All-Star.” He then told everyone that Pat Neshek had made the All-Star team, and they all cheered wildly and stood up and patted him on the back. “It was such an amazing moment after everything I’ve been through,” Neshek says. “I wanted to cry.” He’s crying while talking about crying.

Only then, after all that, do you get to the most emotional story of all. In 2012, Pat and his wife, Stephanee, had their first child, a son they named Gehrig after, well, who else? Pat called it the happiest day of his life, as all first-time dads do.

Less than 24 hours after Gehrig was born, he stopped breathing — the agony was all-encompassing. The Nesheks have said they will never fully get over it. For more than a year, they could not even open their mail to see the thousands of cards and letters of support they received. It hurt too much. One of the most remarkable things about people, though, is their ability to keep going, to keep living, and earlier this year during spring training, the Nesheks had another son. They named him Hoyt after Hoyt Wilhelm — the Hall of Famer pitcher. He was born 11 days premature, and he was diagnosed with pneumonia.

“Scary,” is the only word Pat Neshek can think of to describe those early hours.

But Hoyt came through. Every day, all spring training, Pat would drive the 90 miles from their home in Melbourne, Fla., to the Cardinals’ spring training facility in Jupiter and back. He said the drive wasn’t a lot of fun. But he would say that he did a lot of thinking on those drives. He thought about baseball, of course. He thought about family. He thought about why he was still doing all this. He wonders if all that thinking might have something to do with the crazy success he’s had this season. Maybe he figured something out. Hey, it’s as good an explanation as anything else.

Last Sunday, the Neshek family — all the grandparents and cousins and the like — gathered in Milwaukee. On Friday night, Pat pitched a scoreless inning and was credited with a victory. Over the weekend, they all celebrated Hoyt. And on Sunday, Hoyt Neshek took his first airplane ride to Minnesota for his father’s first All-Star Game.

“Sorry I’m late,” Neshek said as he walked in for his press conference. “I was on daddy duty.” He then flashed the biggest smile in Minnesota. This was the happiest day of his life. Again. They’re all like that now.

  1. normcash - Jul 15, 2014 at 2:22 PM

    If this story doesn’t leave a lump in your throat and a tear in your eye, you don’t have a heart…..

  2. scorpiox1960 - Jul 15, 2014 at 2:27 PM

    Great story and a well written article.

  3. timnicolai - Jul 15, 2014 at 2:27 PM

    So glad you wrote this, Joe. A perfect story for the best baseball writer around. Thrilled for Pat Neshek and his whole family. Talk about deserving. What a great journey.

  4. timmmah10 - Jul 15, 2014 at 2:58 PM

    Life kicks you. Over and over again. It’s one certainty in life.

    It’s how you react and overcome that shows your resolve as a person.

    This just made me a HUGE Pat Neshek fan.

  5. lukedunphysscienceproject - Jul 15, 2014 at 3:09 PM


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  6. entitymn - Jul 15, 2014 at 3:10 PM

    It’s unnatural for a guy with terrifying vampire fangs to be a vegetarian. Pat’s not good at being normal, though. He was absolutely my favorite pitcher while he was with the Twins. Hated how they handled his injury. I wish they’d get better about those issues someday…

  7. cincinata - Jul 15, 2014 at 3:12 PM

    I really can’t believe this guy is still pitching. I didn’t think he had the talent, but I suppose I was wrong. Good luck to him.

  8. ndnut - Jul 15, 2014 at 3:19 PM

    Pat was my favorite Twin when he was around. I still miss him and think his story is one of if not the best in baseball.

  9. okwhitefalcon - Jul 15, 2014 at 3:49 PM

    This is the kind of writing that separates Posnanski from the Stepford writers/twitter warriors/perennial axe grinders like Joe Sheehan and the usual suspects.

    Each of which will bitch when Neshek makes a cameo in tonight’s game whether he gets an out or gives up a bomb.

    • beepbeepbeeplgb - Jul 15, 2014 at 3:54 PM

      i really do enjoy real articles from time and again, something that doesn’t happen around here too often. this was a great one too!

      • snitor - Jul 15, 2014 at 5:08 PM

        It happens enough to be the best thing about HBT.

  10. Bar None - Jul 15, 2014 at 3:56 PM

    I remember when he was in the Twins system when I was living there. Went to Twinsfest with a friend and got his autograph. I’ve always been a fan of him. A guy who plays baseball because he loves baseball is someone I can get behind regardless of what jersey they put on.

  11. drewsylvania - Jul 15, 2014 at 4:39 PM

    I guess I know who I’m rooting for tonight.

  12. drewsylvania - Jul 15, 2014 at 4:43 PM

    Also, I hope his wife is doing well. As bad as his agony was and is over losing his first son, hers was and is likely much worse.

  13. shawnuel - Jul 15, 2014 at 4:44 PM

    SO, Neshek was in Milwaukee when Segura got news of his son dying. Probably hit him hard. Great opportunity in the future to help foster healing.

    • drewsylvania - Jul 15, 2014 at 4:54 PM

      Yeah, if they feel the need to talk this will be a good opportunity for it.

  14. normcash - Jul 15, 2014 at 6:24 PM

    I wonder who the weirdo is who voted thumbs down on these posts? Got to be a sicko….

  15. barrywhererufrom - Jul 15, 2014 at 6:31 PM

    Great story!! Enough said..

  16. jsally430 - Jul 15, 2014 at 7:03 PM

    So glad to see pat figure it out again. Now I can tell all my friends how back in highschool I took that all star deep. Don’t know where I went wrong. Maybe it’s because it was absolutely pure luck since I hit about 220 in highschool lol

  17. numbskull111 - Jul 16, 2014 at 7:41 AM

    I’m a Nats fan…and I want to hate the Cardinals…but every time I read something about one of their players, or hear one interviewed I can’t help but like them.

  18. bigcatdaddie - Jul 16, 2014 at 10:31 PM

    Joe, you are amazing. You find these interesting stories then write these fabulous posts about them. You are truly one of the greats!

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